Dear All,

Contrary to popular myth, lesbian and gay relationships are not essentially different from other types of relationships and offer as much diversity as heterosexual couples. No two couples function in the same way. One difference, though, is the fact that in most societies, homosexual parnerships are far less accepted than heterosexual ones. Having to live in a society that considers their
couples less worthy than others creates additional obstacles for many homosexuals in their everyday lives.

Another difference comes from the fact that it is impossible for a gay or lesbian couple to function on the basis of the traditional division of gender roles. In a lesbian or gay couple, the partners
have to find a way to interact together which is not based on standard role patterns, much more than in heterosexual couples. This is a chance and a challenge because it enables both partners to
express their individual desires and abilities. It can be difficult for two men or two women to construct a satisfying relationship because of the way that they are expected to behave towards other men or women.

What does partnership mean? The answer is determined by many things like religion, culture, national laws, education, social norms and personal values. In some cultures and societies, the choice of relationship is more influenced by a collective point of view and by family values. For people coming from a conservative cultural background, such background tends to put a strong emphasis on family and community and it can be difficult for them a gay and lesbian way of life while at the same time maintaining a good relationship with their families.

Have you ever seen two men or two women kiss or hug each other or hold hands in public? What was your reaction to this? Why did you react in that way?

What are the obstacles and challenges, whether internal or external? What advantages do you see if there are two people of the same sex in a relationship? What problems can arise?

What do you think defines a happy relationship? How did you know what you were looking for in a relationship?


In this coming QT, we will examine this different parts of aspects in relationships, particularly gay and lesbian relationships. The education and outreach committee would like to invite all members,
gays and lesbians, single or attached to attend our coming QT with the topic: What's Love Got To Do With It?

Date: 11 September 2005
Time: 4 - 6 pm
Venue: Bern's place. Address will be disclosed upon registration.
Medium: English only. (The Chinese/Mandarin session will be held on 25th September 2005)
FOC!!!
Though a small collection will be much appreciated to provide for light refreshment.

Please register with Darrel at qt@plupenang.com. Please also provide your contact details. All personal details are strictly confidential.

Looking forward to seeing you all!

"Under One Rainbow"

with regards,
Darrel
Education and Outreach

**ALL ARE WELCOME!!!!