Jung revealed:
My experiences with bi boyfriends were always sad and ended with me being hurt the most as I am gay. I think a gay guy will put more effort into a relationship than a bi guy. This is my personal opinion and my own past experiences, because they always can go out and find a female and hide behind a marriage. Is there any opinion on this view, or any past experience to share with us?

Jasper Ang advised:
You have to play a different relationship game if you want to involve with bi. You must be ready and okay with the kind of relationship. It is purely sex and only sex. You may touch something about love and feeling; but not a life commitment. Who he will save first between you and his wife in the sea? After all, the reason being bi does not give him a special need to marry and have fun with others gay, right?

Edmond added:
I agree with Jasper's point.

Bisexuals are the most difficult partners to have and to hold. They will definitely choose their wife first if anything should happen. I am not sure about unmarried bisexuals though. But basically when it comes to married bisexuals, please be careful.

If the intention is only for sex, then go ahead and enjoy. But for us gays, the boundary between sex and love can sometimes become so blurred.

All I want to say is, just don't fall into a trap like I did. The married bisexual I met last year turned out to be a user and a loser.

I told myself right from the beginning to be careful too. But I got myself blinded, and it was a nightmare. Fortunately, thanks to you guys, I manage to wake up. Not all is well yet, but at least I am on the path to recovery (latest count 85%).

P/S: I have nothing against bisexuals at all, just that I would like to share with you my encounter with a bad one.

Scott shared:
I have not met any bi-guys before, so I would not know for sure how their view towards gay relationship was. However I have read some storied in the net that write about a loving relationship between a gay guy and a bi-buy. Most of the stories tool place in the west. Perhaps Westerners are more open-minded towards this issue, so being bi only means that one is comfortable having sex with a girl and a guy. It does not show that a bi-guy will choose a girl over a guy.

In Asia , I think sometimes even fully gay guys will choose marriage when they have to. Sex is sex, it does not really depend on gender. The biggest sex organ is our brain and if you are psycho into getting married when you are forced, then the organ will tell you what to do. I heard someone said about this, I forgot whether it is from this forum or I read it from somewhere else. The real bisexual is actually women, all guys who claimed they are bi are actually closeted gay. I so think this is true.

Anyway, if you think you could not trust a bi-guy, then I would suggest you don't have a relationship with one. Personally, I do not really like bi-guys. I think they are just undecided which way to pick. If anyone who happens to read this thinks himself as bi,
please don't feel offended. This is just my opinion.

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