Rahim asked:
If you had to make a choice, would you choose the one who is physically attractive but is lacking of intelligence, or the one who's not the cutest thing in the litter but is very smart or of your intellectual equal?

Why you would choose one or the other? (and you can't say you want a balance this time, it's handsome but slow or unattractive yet intelligent)

Keny opinioned:
I think I won't choose because it is his heart that counts. Intelligence doesn't come from his heart neither does his look. He can be intelligent but not caring and loving, so what's the point? He can be good looking but doesn't mean that beautiful look will transform into a beautiful care and love.

Edmond disclosed:
I am a person who goes for extremes. If he is really that good looking, but stupid, I will go for that. It is easier to control in this way. If he is really intelligent but ugly, I will also go for him. Highly creative and intelligent people are sexy in their own way. But be warned: If we go for extremes, life is going to be emotionally draining for us. There will be a surge of passion at one moment, and then a vast tide of emptiness the next.

Azman preferred:
Intelligence of course, that's a wiser choice!!!

Ben analyzed:
Well I use to pick beauty over brains and found out that it was just a nice bottle but empty. So I try brains over beauty, and sex.uh, I rather sleep with my pet dog. So at the end of the day, I say (like Keny) a loving and caring heart wins hand down. Why do you want to be with someone who ain't caring or loving? Does it make sense? To have beauty is like caring a lovely work of art around and people will admire... going oohh and ahhh. Having a brainy guy is like carrying your laptop around with you. Get my point?

Sunne agreed:
I do agree with you Ben Ben dear, but to some people, lust took over and it prevents many to think the right path or choice. They usually end up hurting themselves or end up being disappointed. So next time, THINK!!!! Be a wiser person, not all good looking guys out there are bad nor they are all good. Listen to your heart & think with your brain. You always have 2 choices, so choose the one that can make you happy. The final decision is all yours, individually we are all different.

Jung voiced:
Beauty is skin deep. Experiences will tell you so. Sometimes people will be mistaken LUST as LOVE. They will think whenever they are together with someone, if they get hard-ons and horny, it means oh, I love you. Never trust that feeling, it's false, and you might hurt yourself and worst, hurt the other guy.

Bern believed:
If I only got to choose one of them, I will go for intelligence. This is because if he is too beautiful, he may be in love with himself more than with me! After all, beauty lies in the eyes of beholder.

Keny added:

Does "intelligence = compassion + loving + 2(caring) + honesty"?

Some intelligent people are real nerd ...hehehe...perhaps we should choose from
the followings:
a) beauty
b) personality
c) intelligent (as in real smart, in either making money or buying you SK II or
SK II.1 set)

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